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Check out the Super Dads Super Kids game.

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Father Involvement... It makes a real 
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The Canadian Father Involvement Initiative can support programs and agencies working with dads.  Our focus is on promoting father-friendly practice across the board.  Check out the "training" page for more details.

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Are you looking for some fathering resources and ideas?  FII-ON has some booklets that you might be interested in.

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New Dads

So, you are a new father.  How's it going?  Intimidated?  Happy?  Confused?  A mix of everything?

Being a new dad is an exciting time, but it can also bring some real challenges. And your role matters - the more you can be with your baby and care for your baby, the better off you both will be down the road.

Fathers can develop a strong bond with their children:

  • start the connection with your baby as early as you can - even before she is born
  • the mort important experiences for a baby's brain are ordinary one - being carried, fed, bathed, diapered, getting outside, playing peek-a-boo, or hearing loving, caring words
  • do things together with your baby  - take him shopping, go to the park, listen to music, visit some friends

The importance of touch

  • touch is one way you communicate your feelings to your baby
  • touch stimulates a baby’s brain in ways that help your child deal with stress and strong feelings throughout her life
  • touch needs to be loving, caring and gentle
  • being held, carried, stroked, massaged, or even sleeping on your chest are all ways to touch your child

Emotional Development

  • Comfort your child when he is upset.  But be aware that you can't control your child's feelings.
  • Allow your child to feel the way she feels.  Try not to say things like, "Don't be silly!" to a child who is angry, afraid or sad.
  • Use feeling words when your child is emotional.  "You're really frustrated, aren't you?"  "I can tell you're really excited about seeing your cousins!"
  • Be patient.  Children learn to handle emotions gradually.  At times their emotional responses will seem mature.  Other times, they will be immature.
  • Model good emotional management.  Children learn a lot from the way you handle emotions.

Building Brains Through Play

  • play gets the brain working - it gets children interested in things.
  • play helps develop language skills - reading, rhymes, and tickling games help a baby connect words with sounds.
  • play can be a way for a child to participate in life - babies learn about the world by watching  and copying you.
  • play gives an opportunity for problem-solving and learning - by trying new things babies learn their abilities and limitations.
  • play is meant to be fun - play is one thing that makes childhood enjoyable and interesting

 

10 things to do when there is nothing to do with your baby

Check out some tips for choosing a proper infant car seat.